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Relaxation Techniques for Anxiety

Wendy M Yoder, Ph.D.
Relaxation Techniques for Anxiety

Learning effective anxiety relaxation techniques is an important part of coping with stress and anxiety. These techniques won't cure anxiety in isolation. Rather you will need more extensive anxiety treatment - but they can reduce your anxiety during times of high stress, and the less anxiety you experience, the easier it is to cope with anxiety later.

There are several fool-proof techniques for fighting anxiety. Many people wonder whether these anxiety reduction techniques actually work, or if they're simply a placebo - where only those that believe they work will benefit from them. The reality is that relaxation exercises do work, but they take a type of commitment that not everyone is ready for.

Most places give you techniques to simply manage your anxiety. But you'll still have to deal with anxiety every day. It's possible to cure anxiety forever and prevent it from ever coming back.

Before we get to these relaxation techniques, here are several common questions that people have about these types of exercises for relaxation.

Are Relaxation Exercises and Meditation the Same Thing?

Meditation is most certainly a type of relaxation exercise, but it's not the only relaxation exercise. Many experts have taken key qualities from meditation and put them to use in other exercises, to provide further relaxation benefits.

For example, meditation uses mantras as a way of distracting the mind. Some relaxation exercises use mantras, while others use counting backward or repeating a positive phrase. All of these operate under the same principle - to ease the mind from its stress.

What Are Mantras and Why Are They Used?

Mantras are sounds that a person makes during meditation. Many people know the most common sound, "Om," which is used in a lot of the media depictions of meditation.

The original purpose of mantras was to get the individual in touch with various spiritual deities. Many people have lost the spiritual component of these mantras, but continue to use mantras, affirmations, and counting exercise to get some of the same benefits. These benefits include:

Other activities, like counting backward or repeating positive phrases, may add to this experience. Even without a spiritual component, making mantras and noises add to the relaxation experience.

"I've Tried Relaxation Exercises, But I Just Can't Do It."

One of the reasons that more people don't use relaxation exercises is because they haven't seen results when they've tried them in the past.

The truth is that everyone can benefit from these relaxation techniques. It just takes the right preparation and attitude:

What Are the Specific Benefits of Anxiety Relaxation Techniques?

Relaxation techniques are not a cure for your anxiety on their own, but they do provide many tools that are necessary for ridding yourself of anxiety forever. First, they give you a break from your symptoms - something that many people need when they deal with anxiety regularly. Second, they can be used to calm you before activities or events. Since anxiety can cause poor decision making, this can reduce future mistakes, and ultimately future stress.

Finally, relaxation techniques simply take away some of the issues that people with anxiety have to deal with every day. It reduces anxiety and stress, loosens muscles, reduces pain, and may improve your feelings of hope. It's something that can be completed at any time and provide you with that relief that you need.

What is This Relaxation Technique?

It's time to get into the relaxation technique. Remember, you need to commit to it for it to work, and you can't expect massive changes right away. It takes some time for these to become natural, and you need to do it every day so that it starts to become part of your lifestyle, not just something you're doing in a panic.

This relaxation technique is actually a combination of several techniques, taking the best of each to help create one effective strategy. It takes advantage of progressive relaxation, which involves calming each muscle group one at a time by concentrating on a feeling. It starts with the following steps:

Continue this process until you can't focus on your negative thoughts anymore. Try to do it as long as possible, and any time stress or a negative thought enters, have it taken away and keep yourself transported into that new environment, breathing slowly.

What Happens If You Can't Relax?

Remember, this isn't something that provides immediate results. It works when you can learn to do it naturally, and when you first start, chances are you're thinking too hard about each step and expecting too much from it. Relaxation is not about trying too hard. It can take as long as a month of practice for this process to feel natural. That's why you need to commit and practice every day.

Do It Yourself Muscle Relaxation Techniques

A similar and beneficial way to relax your body is to tire each muscle so that it can no longer feel tense. Instead of relaxing your muscle with your mind, you tense each muscle as hard as you can for 10 seconds and then let your muscle rest. You start with your right foot, just like before, and you're your way up, one muscle at a time, tensing each one as hard as you can for 10 seconds before releasing.

Because you tensed it so hard, your muscle becomes instantly tired and feels that level of relaxation that your body needs. This type of relaxation tactic is great if you feel tense before sleeping.

You can also repeat it if you don't feel as relaxed as you want. After a few rounds, your entire body can sometimes feel like jelly.

Adding Aromatherapy

Earlier I mentioned that the best way to visualize is to also imagine yourself filling all of your senses, not just your sense of sight. This is because when all of your senses are enveloped in pleasant thoughts or sensations, your mind has problems focusing on the stressful thoughts and instead finds life more relaxing.

Often, because of where you may be, you'll find that you have to imagine the scent. But if you're at home in a comfortable place, take advantage of it by utilizing aromatherapy scents, so that you do not just imagine the smells anymore - you're surrounded by them.

Aromatherapy is an option that few understand. Studies have shown mixed results about whether or not aromatherapy is a practical solution for anxiety. Regardless of the truth, aromatherapy does help you fill your senses with a smell that is extremely pleasant, and that is always a powerful tool for fighting your anxiety symptoms during a relaxation exercise.

Some valuable aromatherapy scents for anxiety include:

Although many other scents are believed to have calming properties, and each person may have their own preference. Feel free and choose a scent that you find soothing, regardless of whether or not it is supposed to help with anxiety.

Once you've found the scent you like, surround yourself with it. You can do this at any point during the day - not just when you're performing your relaxation exercise - but it's especially valuable if you are combining it with other relaxation methods. If you pair it with other relaxation techniques before using it for any other reason, you'll eventually find that the smell itself becomes associated with that calming feeling, and you can use the smell almost anywhere.

The "Going Crazy" Technique

Generally, the above technique is one of the best relaxation tools available. But some people find that their anxiety is causing them too much energy to sit back and relax. They need to let out that energy, and they can do that with what I like to call the "Going Crazy" technique.

This is when you simply let everything out all at once. In a quiet place with no one around (since it can be sort of embarrassing if people see you), run around in a circle, flail your arms, scream and yell and do anything you want, no matter how crazy it is (as long as it's safe, of course). Throw a tantrum. Jump on your bed. Throw a pillow on the floor. Laugh hysterically. As the name implies, GO CRAZY. Whatever you want to do, do it. Let go of your sense of what's ridiculous for a while and let yourself go nuts until you've let it all out.

You should overkill it. Do it for a full 5 to 10 minutes (much longer than it sounds). When you feel like you've let it all out, keep letting it out. Don't stop until you've released so much of that pent-up frustration, anxiety, and stress that you are left drained and satisfied.

Not everyone benefits from this type of technique, and you want to make sure that you can do it in private. But those that feel like they simply need to let out their emotions may find this a better tool than simply relaxing.

Finally, Don't Forget Art

Creativity is also a great relaxation tool. It's an outlet for your emotions, while giving you something to focus all of your mental energy on. When you draw, paint, or write, you're turning your stresses into a tool - something that, in some ways, is a good thing, because it sparks inspiration for some type of art form.

Any artistic, creative activity that you enjoy doing can be immensely beneficial for reducing anxiety, and while it may not necessarily be considered a traditional relaxation strategy, it's one that definitely has its benefits.

Once You've Relaxed, It's Time to Get Cured

All of these strategies play an integral role in your ability to fight stress and reduce the way anxiety affects your day to day life. But they're not solutions for anxiety - merely tools to make living with anxiety easier.

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