Archive for July, 2009

What are Cognitive Techniques for Overcoming Anxiety?

Wednesday, July 8th, 2009

As you begin to observe your levels of fear (on the 0 to 10 scale), you will notice that those levels are not constant. Your anxiety, in fact, goes up and down. You may begin to notice that the fear goes up when you are concentrating more on your most frightening thoughts and bodily reactions.

It would be helpful to notice your level of panic, and also listen carefully to the messages you are sending your¬self about your symptoms. It may be very normal to have some level of tension in certain situations, like having to give a speech or getting on an airplane. However, the difference between feeling an anxiety level of 1 or 2 in some situations and a level 10 in others can be the result of your own thoughts. If you predict that a catastrophe will occur, or that you will be unable to cope, or that you will need to escape, your fearful feelings will intensify. Catastrophic thinking causes people with panic attacks to misinterpret anxiety symptoms as being dangerous.

Fortunately, there is another more rational voice always with you. By focusing on this reassuring voice, you can bring a level of 10 back down. We call this voice the “Rational You.” The Rational You “thinks” its way through life’s events evaluating the degrees of safety versus danger involved. It can reassure and comfort you when you are okay. What happens to this part of you in panic situations? It gets pushed aside when you focus on the anxiety sensations and misinterpret them as dangerous.

In order to strengthen the Rational You, examine the specific thoughts that increase your feelings of panic and deliberately try to develop alternate ways of thinking. This is called rational responding, or decatastrophizing.
For example, the thought, “I am going crazy” might be replaced with, “I am just experiencing physical symptoms. I have no reason to think I’m going crazy.” “I’m going to faint” could be replaced with, “I’ve never faint¬ed before and there is no evidence that I’m going to now.” Adding those soothing words and phrases that you have developed, such as “relax,” “it will pass,” “it’s just my heart beating — I’m not dying,” as well as slow, gentle breathing exercises will also help.

Carry your First Alert Card with your catastrophic predictions on one side and your rational responses on the other. Before entering a situation where you think panic might occur, read the card and focus on the rational response. When you are plagued with catastrophic thoughts, talk to yourself as objectively as you can. Do you have any evidence to support those thoughts that disaster might happen? Is there any other way you could view the situation? This exercise will usually allow you to see that you have been concentrating on the worst possible, but by no means the most likely, outcome.

You can also try what is called “here and now” focusing. Allow your awareness of panicky thoughts to recede and, instead, concentrate intently on what is around you. Pay attention to the colors, sights, smells, sounds, and tasks at hand. When panic thoughts intrude, use them as reminders to refocus your attention on the actual situation.

Stay focused on what you are feeling now — “I feel my heart beating,” for example, rather than “I am going to have a heart attack.” Stay attuned to the situation, rather than to your fear of what may be about to happen.

People who develop extreme fear reactions sometimes label every feeling they have as anxiety. This is another error in logic or judgment. See if you can identify feelings other than fear or anxiety when you are experiencing discomfort. Perhaps you’re excited, sad, lonely, angry, or disappointed. Ask yourself, “What would I be feeling right now if I weren’t feeling anxious?”

Another way to say this is, “What else am I feeling underneath my fear?” If those other uncomfortable feelings are due to something other than anxiety, you may be able to work on solving the other problems or accepting some of those feelings as normal parts of being alive.

Differentiating anxiety from fatigue, hunger, or your physical response to caffeine, heat, or humidity can reduce the potential of panic attacks. (This is called reattribution.) Some people are afraid to feel intense emotion and get anxious if they are very sad, angry, etc. The more you begin to identify and get comfortable with your entire range of emotions, the less scary and more manageable all your emotions will become.

Many of our irrational thoughts spring from basic beliefs about ourselves, especially, and about others as well. These beliefs usually come from childhood and are very deeply ingrained. If unexamined, these beliefs may cause you to dismiss or discount the Rational You.

Anxiety Troubled Friends & Family: 15 Do’s & Don’ts

Tuesday, July 7th, 2009

Often, family and friends really want to know is, “What can I do to help?” Therefore, we recommend the following list of helpful suggestions, as a result of listening and learning from our clients. So, here’s a list of do’s and don’t's for those who are closest to you.

1. DON’T criticize. Sufferers of panic attacks have real physical symptoms. They are probably more critical of themselves than you are. Remember that negative comments can contribute to slowing down their progress by adding stress and making them feel guilty for their feelings!
2. DO encourage rather than shame or embarrass them. They are already tackling a difficult situation, so positive support will pay off for everyone in the end.
3. DON’T induce guilt when the anxious person is unable to do certain things. It is hard for them to deal with their limitations anyway, and adding guilt will only alienate you from the person you most want to help.
4. DON’T express disappointment, anger, or frustration if a setback occurs. When trying to overcome a problem like this, every effort is an accomplishment, with the potential for other, greater accomplishments in the future.
5. DO notice and compliment their efforts to conquer their fear, as well as their actual successes. Your affirmation will help build their confidence.
6. DO be empathic. Try to understand the problem from their point of view. They don’t need your pity, but your help, your encouragement, and your support.
7. DO be willing to accompany them on practice ses¬sions if they ask you to. This means going along because you want to help, not because you feel obligated.
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8. DO be quick to point out their positive qualities. Give them the same consideration you would want for yourself.
9. DO listen when they need to talk. It can be a great relief for them to share their distress. Also, listening becomes an opportunity to gently encourage their attempts to cope.
10. DO allow them to be in charge whenever you can. The ability to make decisions and take action is a real aid to self-confidence and helps them realize that control is possible.
11. DO avoid surprises. Let them know what is going to happen and when, so they can make plans to deal with any panic that may arise.
12. DO help them identify their successes. Change can be so gradual that improvements may go unnoticed and a sense of progress is very important.
13. DO work with them to identify family patterns, situations, or concerns that may contribute to the problem. Try to notice and improve any interactions between you that are detrimental to their growth and independence.
14. DO be consistent. Recognize that there will probably be changes as they are better able to handle anxiety and stress. Try not to be threatened by the prospect of their increased self-confidence or potential changes in your relationship. Seek family therapy or marital counseling if necessary.
15. DO be patient! Maybe more than anything, it will help if your loved ones know that, when they finally overcome these attacks, you will be there for them.

Read This if You Worry About Anxiety Sleep Problems

Tuesday, July 7th, 2009

Maybe you have that common plague of lying awake at night worrying about all the sleep you are missing; this builds up more tension and ensures that you don’t fall asleep. One solution is to try and do the opposite. Try to stay awake as long as possible, repeatedly going over what you did during the day, or doing mental calculations, or reading boring books. Eventually, your body’s natural controls will take over, your eyes will droop, and sleep will overtake you no matter how hard you struggle to keep awake.

As an alternative, close your eyes and imagine a pitch black window shade slowly unrolling downward. On it you see in large letters the word SLEEP. Concentrate on seeing this word on the shade as it gradually winds down. Feel yourself sinking steadily into sleep as the shade comes down.

Best Exercises That Help With Anxiety Problems

Saturday, July 4th, 2009

Several studies—ranging from those conducted on people with normal anxiety in a laboratory, through uncontrolled studies of patients suffering from various kinds of Anxiety Disorders, to controlled studies of patients with Anxiety Disorders or depression—have shown that exercise decreases anxiety. In one uncontrolled study, agoraphobics were asked to run “at their best speed.” Running produced increased heart rate, rapid breathing, sweating, and, in some, trembling— all symptoms these patients associated with anxiety or panic. Having been given a physiologic experience of and explanation for these “panic” symptoms, they were asked to enter the situations they had been avoiding and did so without experiencing panic. It may be that all that the exercise contributed to treatment was a rationale that allowed these patients to perform effective exposure therapy.

Laboratory studies of both normal individuals and those with Generalized Anxiety Disorder who exercised vigorously on a treadmill showed that anxiety decreased substantially after exercise and remained decreased for three to five hours.

Several controlled studies of exercise used to treat mild to moderate depression have shown that anxiety measured on standard self-report questionnaires, as well as depression, decreased and remained at lower levels after exercise. Whether this was a direct effect on anxiety or a result of reduced depression was not clear.

Many questions arise regarding the kinds of anxiety that might benefit from treatment with exercise, the amount of exercise needed (in terms of frequency, intensity, and duration), and the likelihood of relapse when exercise is stopped. Not everyone can undertake an exercise program and not everyone would wish to do so. Exercise is clearly an experimental treatment of Anxiety Disorders at this time and cannot be prescribed with confidence for any specific disorder. Older people considering exercise should obtain clearance from their physician to check for risks of cardiovascular and other medical problems. Anyone beginning an exercise program should start gradually in order to lessen the likelihood of ordinary muscle and joint aches and pains that are so common in those taking up exercise for the first time or after a period of inactivity.

Rule of Thumb on How Long To take Anti-Anxiety Medicine

Saturday, July 4th, 2009

The length of treatment varies greatly among individuals and depends considerably on the type of Anxiety Disorder being treated. Some conditions are situational and self-limiting, and—in such instances—treatment will be quite brief. Other conditions are long-standing, waxing and wan­ing in intensity, and require treatment that may be indefinite in length. Regardless of how chronic the disorder is, we feel that periodic efforts should be made to gradually reduce dose and, if possible, discontinue treatment with medica­tion. At times, even chronic conditions do not recur when medication is stopped. If they do, simply restarting the medicine should bring relief.

Can Antidepressants Help Treat Anxiety? Does it make sense?

Saturday, July 4th, 2009

It may. Anxiety may be a prominent feature of an underlying depressive disorder and, in such instances, going right to the heart of the matter and treating the depression makes sense. When the depression improves, anxiety usually does too. Also, certain antidepressants have sedative properties that may be useful in reducing anxiety.

Another reason for using an antidepressant drug is that people with Anxiety Disorders sometimes become depressed because of, or in addition to, the anxiety disorder. Here, the antidepressant would be directed at the depression while other treatments (usually behavior therapy) would be used to relieve the Anxiety Disorder. In the presence of depression, Anxiety Disorders are often more resistant to treatment; in these cases, then, treatment of depression is quite important.

Finally, some doctors believe that certain Anxiety Disorders respond well to treatment with antidepressant drugs, even if depression is not present. In such conditions, the drugs may work in a way that is unrelated to their antidepressant activity. The Anxiety Disorders that some treat with antidepressant drugs include Panic Disorder (with or without Agoraphobia) and Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder. The an¬tidepressant drugs might also be called “antipanic” drugs much as aspirin is used both for its antipyretic (fever-reducing), antiinflammatory, and analgesic (pain-relieving) properties.

How Premenstrual Syndrome (PMS) causes Anxiety and How To Cope With It

Saturday, July 4th, 2009

Yes, anxiety is one of many symptoms that have been ascribed to the premenstrual syndrome (PMS). Other emo­tional symptoms may include irritability, impatience, restlessness, tension, fatigue, sadness, and depression. By definition, symptoms associated with PMS are either con­fined to or greatly aggravated during the premenstrual part of the cycle. Keeping a daily record of symptoms over several cycles can be quite useful to the patient’s doctor in making a diagnosis. At present there are many treatments available for PMS, but none has been shown to be uniformly effective.

Difficulty Swallowing? Get Rid of This Nightmare Anxiety Symptom

Thursday, July 2nd, 2009

If there’s a disease with a special way of wreaking all kinds of havoc in both your mind and body, that’s anxiety. While almost everyone has occasional feelings of anxiousness, many people have full-blown anxiety disorders that afflict them with all kinds of distress. In some cases people may think they’re going crazy when they realize something as simple as swallowing may suddenly become apparently impossible… but quite frequently those strange symptoms are triggered by anxiety.

This is actually a common pattern with anxiety symptoms: they’ll suddenly make something that most everyone takes for granted seem impossible for the afflicted individual. Anxiety can be paralyzing, and in the heights of a panic attack, people really can forget how to do something as natural and simple as breathing or swallowing. Needless to say, the more someone gets tense over their symptoms, the more intense and frightening their symptoms really get.

That is actually the most important advice you should try to keep in mind, when you find yourself having trouble swallowing: do what you can to avoid getting caught up in an obsessive state of mind. If you are worried your symptoms might be caused by a physical sickness, then you need to consult with a doctor and get the appropriate tests. Only by doing so will you know for sure if your problem is real or imaginary.

If your problem is imaginary (which goes to say, fueled by anxiety), there’s no point in looking for a treatment that will help with dealing with your swallowing issues. You need to focus on treating your anxiety disorder, and as you do so, your swallowing function will naturally get back to normal. Much of the act of swallowing is involuntary anyway, so there really isn’t much point in looking for some kind of miracle that would somehow solve your problem overnight.

Maybe you can do nothing to control your swallowing problems directly, but there is much that you can do to handle your anxiety… and as you do so, all your symptoms will gradually subside. A good step in the direction of treatment is engaging in physical activity as regularly possible and finding new hobbies to keep you distracted; after all, an idle mind is a workshop for the devil!

How To Get Rid of Social Skills Deficits

Thursday, July 2nd, 2009

Social Skills Deficits refer to the anxiety and difficulty some people have in forming superficial or intimate relationships when these are sought and desired. Other terms to describe the problem are social inadequacy, avoidant personality disorder, and extreme shyness. Social Phobias merge imperceptibly with Social Skills Deficits. No formal comparison between them has been published, but some insight may be gained by examining features of the latter.

The characteristics of 46 subjects with social dysfunction and associated anxiety were compared with those of other outpatients referred for behavior therapy in the Maudsley Hospital in London. Their social dysfunction was said to be “lifelong”; most (61 percent) reported having had no friends at school and recognized their problem in their teens. The problem largely manifested as a difficulty in initiating and maintaining social interaction and friendships, especially with new peers and members of the opposite sex. Social activities were few, apart from going to a bar where alcohol and the possibility of drinking in relative isolation reduced anxiety. They found it difficult to go to parties or dances. In social situations they feared ridicule or criticism, looking silly, losing control, or having a panic, and it was hard to talk about their feelings. Over 60 percent had had psychiatric treatment in the past, especially for depression (35 percent) and for the social dysfunction (22 percent). In another sample, in which students were the subjects, lack of assertion correlated with low self-esteem, interpersonal anxiety, fear of disapproval, and depression.

The average age of the individuals who sought help for Social Skills Deficits (34 years) was similar to that of other outpatients. Like social phobics they had a higher social class and education than other outpatients. Three-quarters were either living alone or with their parents. They were more often male and unmarried, 57 percent were virgin, and most of the remainder had difficulties in sexual performance. Many of the patients asked for sex therapy after social skills training made the possibility of intimate relationships more likely.

Anxiety vs Depression: Are They Related?

Thursday, July 2nd, 2009

People who are depressed usually feel anxious as well. In agitated depression, their anxiety is extreme and may be displayed as an inability to sit still, constant pacing, hand wringing, picking at clothing or fingers and nails, lip biting, and anguished facial expressions that convey their inner turmoil. Depression may accentuate anxiety and worry about everyday problems that individuals previously took in stride.

Difficulty making up one’s mind and other indications of anxiety may also emerge with depression.

On the other hand, anxiety itself is depressing, and it is normal to get somewhat depressed if anxiety persists too long. Usually, however, sad feelings in anxious people are less intense than those found in people in whom depression is the primary problem. Relieving primary anxiety often helps mild associated depression as well.

Some people can have both a primary depression and a primary Anxiety Disorder. For doctors, it is current practice to distinguish the various types of depression and anxiety based on information obtained from the patient: the medical history of the individual and his or her family, the specific symptoms that are present, and sometimes the sequence of symptoms (that is, whether depression or anxiety occurs first). The doctor’s professional decision on whether anxiety or depression or another disorder is the primary cause of a patient’s difficulty is called the differential diagnosis. At times, however, arriving at this differential diagnosis is complicated and may require repeated evaluations through interviews, laboratory tests, and—sometimes—trials of various treatments appropriate for depression and Anxiety Disorders.